Beauty is not skin deep, a real beauty has more attributes to her than the naked eye can see.  Attributes that combine to make a really beautiful individual are 

Awareness of others….aware of not just the exciting few but of everyone and liking all-or if not liking at least tolerance, the habit of noticing other’s faults are forgivable or balanced by their equivalent virtues. 

Confidence……this takes you right to the centre of things, when you have it you belong everywhere, so what will give you confidence?  Good looks plus good grooming; but that is not all.  Confidence means that when you are faced with an embarrassing situation, you should not get panicky and you should know how to make the best of the situation.  Confidence in other words means to be self assured always.

Good Morning…..this should be part of your regular routine.  There is nothing to make you feel as awkward or self-conscious as the knowledge that you have forgotten to wear your deodorant (when you find your escort recoiling from you every time you go close to him).  Good grooming therefore means that you should pay attention to even the smallest item of beauty.  You will find this an irksome task in the beginning but slowly this will be a habit with you.

Watch you manners……play watchdog about your own mannerisms and try to push them out of your life.  Recognize an ugly mannerism when you see one.  Here are some to watch out for.

          -Scratching face, nose, head, legs, hands

          -Digging your nose

          -Biting fingernails lock of hair, knuckles

          -Rubbing, arms, forehead, chin, back of neck

          -Chewing lips, tongue, foreign objects

          -Twisting hands hair, ring, jewellery

          -Blinking or squinting you eyequinting you eyequinting you eye

          -Tapping desk or table with nail, pencil etc.ail, pencil etc.

          -Foot swinging and toe tapping and toe tapping

          -staring into space.

          -Leaning on walls, doors and other people